If I were on trial, I’d want someone like me – having worked hard to
be open-minded throughout my entire good-citizenship career – for one of
my jurors. But not for the jury to which I was just summoned. The
prosecution may have wanted me; the defense would’ve had me outa there
in a heartbeat.
It was a fascinating exercise. For openers, the giant jury assembly
room was nearly filled, all of us summoned for this one trial. We were
all duly sworn in on the spot, and eventually the judge and two main
attorneys appeared. This case, the judge said, could be unpleasant for
some, and complicated for others, and they hoped to sort it all out
before getting down to business the next day. She then read out the
form: a questionnaire about you the juror. Have you ever been sexually
assaulted? Do you know anyone who has? And questions to that effect.
Here’s what the deal seemed to be: A woman had been abused by a guy.
It didn’t seem to be rape; it seemed to be everything else. Kidnapping
with intent to commit rape. Maybe attempted rape. Even attempted arousal
for purposes of who knows what. The trial, if the judge’s overview was
any indication, would turn on who you believed, and how far is too far.
In the 1950s, when I had my own trials (physical/emotional, not
judicial) with date rape/workplace rape of this exact sort, women had
little power and less choice. Today it can come down to who has real
power and who has real choice. Did she really go somewhere with him
willingly? Did she say No? Did he listen?
Sorry guys, unless she’s 6′ tall and outweighs him by 40 pounds, I am
going to lean toward the lady. Handily having a disabled husband to
look after, I begged hardship exemption.
Hopefully, for plaintiff and defendant both, a jury of their peers was seated the next day.
Rape is difficult to prove. Rape cases in court often are painful to the "victims" and they are examined all over again..In a male dominant country like ours we have our nightmares too. Most rape victims would rather not go to trial.
ReplyDeleteAnd according to most cases on record in Malaysia most "rapists" get away ..
Furthermore most women in Malaysia hope that we will not adopt Islamic laws which state...there must be two witnesses to the rape incident..other wise "no case".
Luckily in Malaysia we are still free to go to the nomral courts.
May God protect all women on earth.
I love your post...